Paradise Paradigm Shift

After over a year of what I might term “relentless stress,” we took a family vacation. As a mom, I wouldn’t say I look forward to a family vacation most of the time because they usually entail doing all the stuff you have to do at home but without the conveniences of home–taking care of kids’ needs and meals and laundry and entertaining the kids, etc., but while living out of a suitcase. We haven’t really done much in the way of family vacations ever (other than visiting relatives. Does that count? Kinda not.) About seven years ago we took our kids to California, but while we were at Disneyland, some of the kids cried a little saying they wished they were at Grandma’s house with the baby kittens instead. So, yeah. Why bother with Space Mountain, right? (Even though I adore the Magic Kingdom.)

But this year our oldest graduates, and then he will leave for two years to be a missionary, and then he’ll start college, at which point the next one will leave for two years, and, so on and so forth, and some of them will (we hope!) get married, and then…well, our family dynamic and configuration might never be the same again. We needed to do something to create a family memory. We needed a vacation.

So we threw caution to the wind, figured out a frequent-flyer-miles scheme, took up a friend’s offer for a beach house, and went to Hawaii. HAWAII, people. Hawaii. I never in a million years thought we could take five children to Hawaii. But with God’s grace, we were able to make it happen: a visit to paradise on earth.

Normally, I’d be a stress case about this: what to do, where to go, when to go there, how to entertain five kids on an island…but after minimal looks at Volcanoes National Park, a general map of the area in my head, and certainly zero time to plan (due to aforementioned “relentless stress), we just got on the plane.

GLORIOUS. That’s the only word I can think of right now to describe the trip.

And for the first time in over a year, I didn’t have any stress. I just absolutely decompressed. Now that we have three teens and two tweens, no one needed much in the way of mom attention. All I did was cook meals, which is…whatever. No problem. We walked to the beach, watched the dolphins jumping in the bay, listened to the waves day and night, drove to the volcano and saw the glow of the caldera, drove up another volcano to 13,000 feet and watched the sun set through the blanket of clouds, sat on another beach, went to church, went to a historical site, ate macadamia nuts, and did nothing.

I’m telling you, it was incredible. And while I was there, I realized that a lot of the things I’d been overstressing about were, frankly, unnecessary. I had been doing everything I possibly could. For everyone. For everything. But that isn’t always the right thing. Sometimes I just need to do what’s necessary, and not everything that’s possible. Does that make sense?

Coming home, I was immediately bombarded with the usual stuff, but instead of letting it take over again, I just pulled back. I had a friend remind me that I need to evaluate “where am I irreplaceable” and then do *those* things. Not EVERYTHING. And it’s okay. Other people can take those responsibilities for now, or the duties can wait.

Since I’ve been back, I’ve done things at my house that were waiting for a long time. Filing that hadn’t been done since 2014. Mopping my floor for the first time since Christmas. Writing letters to my family members far away. Cooking normal meals for my family and standing in the kitchen to listen to my kids. Helping my husband with a major project he’s involved in where he needs my support. I even took one nap.

What I haven’t done? Write a single word in a manuscript. Promote my novels other than a tweet or two. Spend any time on social media or even answer emails (sorry, email friends!). Start up a single fundraiser for a good cause (unlike several I spearheaded earlier this year.) Stuff like that. Stuff that felt like if I didn’t do it I’d be a terrible person. Yes, I still have people to visit, friends to try to lift and support, but I’ve had to do most of that remotely instead of traveling to them for now.

A couple of months ago, my husband said the most romantic thing he’s maybe ever said to me: “Jen, your mental health is important to me.” Ha, ha, ha. But it was so touching. And true!

So, for a bit, I’m concentrating on the now, on the moment, on the family, on the sanity.

I’ll let myself go insanely obsessed over writing again, most likely. But it’s good to have seasons for things in our lives. Sometimes it takes a trip to an island to get our minds redirected to what’s really important, and I’m incredibly grateful for the blessing going on that trip gave me. I hope everyone who is as snowed under and stressed out as I am/was can find their island to get their bearings. Because all we have are moments. All we have is now. It won’t, actually, ever be the same again.

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I can’t get enough of these Goodreads giveaways! They are so awesome! And with the great response LEGALLY WEDDED has received, I’m just thrilled. It’s been at #2 on Amazon’s hot new releases (legal) since its release. Can you believe it? Neither can I. SOooooOOoo, anyway, it’s time to win your free copy! Sign up, share with your friends!

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Legally Wedded

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Of Wheat Thins and Lessons Learned

This past few weeks has been one continuous round of wild rides. Everything from family surgery to being in charge of fundraisers (that’s plural, fundraiserz) to politics to a book releasing to meetings-a-go-go to missionary discussions to two extremely exciting new opportunities to a busted pipe in a field to mission papers to an Eagle project and its accompanying papers (believe me, those are plural) to … you name it, it’s been on our calendar.

Except pulling weeds. That hasn’t been on our calendar. (Hey, this is Arizona, we have weeds year-round.)

Some seasons are just like that.

And to top it all off, I’m on a diet. WHY must we diet? Why can’t we just burn calories by experiencing stress? Shouldn’t worrying be a form of physical exercise? I mean, I know it wears me out. Why do I also have to subsist on Wheat Thins (not a bad thing, since they’re DELICIOUS, as long as they are the name brand, not the store brand) and whatever “they” define as a “handful” of almonds. Believe me, it’s possible to get a lot of almonds in my hand when I’m feeling like I’m starving.


However, I was thinking about something my father-in-law said the other night about signing up for this life. “I didn’t sign up for ease. I signed up for experience. And believe you me, I am getting it. In spades.”

There aren’t any of these experiences hitting us this past month or so I’d trade. I want them all. Even the less-pleasant ones, I can look back on with fondness, eventually, and with gratitude–either for what I learned, or simply that with God’s help we survived.

Right now I’m looking at this particular week with a boatload of gratitude. A whole heckuva lot of friends and family and kind people came to my support for the release of my most recent book, and I just felt showered with all the kindness and encouragement. I know I’m not some magically wonderful writer, and that maybe only one or two of my books out of a dozen may be worth reading. I hope I’m improving–and I just feel thankful to everyone who has encouraged me to keep trying along the way. I wish I could share my box of Wheat Thins with all of you.

Thank you.

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Do you love romance novels_ Grab one ebook for .99 cents and get the second one free.

On February 2nd, launch day for LEGALLY WEDDED, I’m excited to give you a fantastic deal!

For just two days, I’ll be offering Legally Wedded for 99-cents. That’s the lowest price I’ve ever offered a full-length novel. But wait, there’s MORE! If you order Legally Wedded, will send you a kindle file of this amazing, hilarious new novel by CJ Anaya, MARRY YOUR BILLIONAIRE. Yay!

Marry Your Billionaire won’t release until March 2nd, so this is an exclusive sneak-peek. Awesome! I’ve read it, and I’m telling you, you don’t want to miss this romantic romp into reality TV.


  1. Purchase LEGALLY WEDDED on February 2nd (or 3rd) for 99-cents here.

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Will Morgan and Josh ever be able to pay for college, or will getting legally wedded be their only option?

Will Morgan and Josh ever be able to pay for college, or will getting legally wedded be their only option?

Morgan Clark is desperate. With just her senior year to go at Clarendon College and her scholarship up in smoke, she suddenly finds she can’t qualify for financial aid. Until Morgan finishes and can work full time to pay their rent, her sister can’t even start school.

Josh Hyatt is desperate. Without his degree from Clarendon he won’t be able to join his girlfriend in their dream career which she’s already begun, and he can’t qualify for government grants thanks to his estranged father’s interference.

Morgan, meet Josh. Josh, meet Morgan. Are they desperate enough to get legally wedded?

Get wrapped up in the knots Morgan and Josh create for themselves in this marriage of convenience story with legal and emotional consequences. Legally Wedded is the third installment in bestselling romantic comedy author Jennifer Griffith’s Legally in Love series, following Attractive Nuisance and Asked & Answered, all of which are standalone stories full of romance and comedy and legal attraction.


Marry Your Billionaire (2)

Six years ago, Midge Knightly walked away from her trust fund, her Hollywood producer father, and the expectation that she would join the family business. Avoiding handsome playboys with hidden agendas was just an added bonus. Now one semester shy of graduation, she is shocked to discover her scholarship has lost its funding.

Her estranged father is having problems of his own. A contestant on his latest reality TV series has cancelled two months before shooting. His solution? Midge gets her trust fund back if she stands in as a potential marriage candidate for the dating series Marry Your Billionaire. Twenty women competing for one arrogant guy. Not Midge’s cup of tea.

Agreeing to this proposition sucks her back into the world she happily broke ties from, but no trust fund equals no college degree. Brody Prescott, CEO and owner of an online dating company, has recently been pegged as a heartless playboy-among other things-by a disgruntled female after a disappointing date.

His solution? Become the first bachelor on Marry Your Billionaire and hope that one of the contestants holds some potential. So what is he supposed to do when the woman who intrigues him the most wants to be eliminated?

Marry Your Billionaire is a fun, romantic romp set against the backdrop of reality TV. Throw on your PJ’s, grab some chocolate and popcorn, and settle in for an entertaining love story.

Giveaway! Win *THREE* Paperbacks in the Legally in Love Series!

To celebrate the release of LEGALLY WEDDED, there’s a massive giveaway going on. Enter to win ALL THREE books in the Legally in Love series, and be among the first to read LEGALLY WEDDED, a super fun romance that will keep you glued to your book. Enter! Tell your friends! Win!

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Legally Wedded by Jennifer Griffith

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by Jennifer Griffith

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I’m so excited to reveal the cover for my newest installation in the Legally in Love series.



Will Morgan and Josh ever be able to pay for college, or will getting legally wedded be their only option?

Will Morgan and Josh ever be able to pay for college, or will getting legally wedded be their only option?


Here’s the synopsis:

Morgan Clark is desperate. With just her senior year to go at Clarendon College and her scholarship up in smoke, she suddenly finds she can’t qualify for financial aid. And until Morgan finishes and can work full time, her sister can’t even start school.

Josh Hyatt is desperate. Without his degree from Clarendon he won’t be able to join his girlfriend in their dream career which she’s already begun, and he can’t qualify for government grants thanks to his estranged father’s interference.

Morgan, meet Josh. Josh, meet Morgan. Are they desperate enough to get legally wedded?

So, what do you think? Will love prevail? Or will college costs choke their hopes? Haha.

This is the third book in my Legally in Love series, following Attractive Nuisance and Asked & Answered. All three novels are standalones, with different characters, settings and plots, so it doesn’t matter what order they’re read in. As long as you read them, I’m just pleased as punch. >winking smiley face emoticon here, even though that’s cheesy and weird<

I submitted it for reviews yesterday, and man! I am a ball of nerves now! I love it, but will anyone else? DYING. Just dying. I should go do some yoga or something to calm down, my sister would say.

This book is set for a Valentine’s Day release–well, the week before–February 2!

It’s up for pre-order at a special pre-order price! Here’s the link!

Everything Hits at Once

Am I right? Does it seem like life comes in waves, where there’s nothing, nothing, nothing for a while, and then BAM! you’re over your head? I kind of felt like that in a bad way from March until September, but I won’t go into it or I’ll sound like a whiner. No whiners!

I guess I’m getting whacked by a good wave today because BAM! I have THREE new things that just hit the shelves on Amazon: two paperback versions and an audio version of my books! AND…I’ll have a cover reveal coming at you next week. Pretty stoked about that. AND…yeah, that’s it. Oh, yeah. I won NaNoWriMo, which is why I haven’t posted anything on this blog since October. Kinda been drowning in that National Novel Writing Month wave–in a good way. Super excited to tell you about that new story…soon!

However, today is big as it is! SO, without further blabbering on and on, here we go!

INTRODUCING: The paperback version of ASKED & ANSWERED!

Asked & Answered Book 2 in the Legally in Love Series

Asked & Answered
Book 2 in the Legally in Love Series

AND: The paperback version of ATTRACTIVE NUISANCE!

Now both books in the LEGALLY IN LOVE series so far are in paperback. Woot! For those of you who aren’t Kindle lovers, this is a good chance to get to read this light, romantic comedy series about lawyers in love. Because even lawyers need love. I know, because I married one myself. <3

It's LAYWERS IN LOVE! What's not to love?

It’s LAYWERS IN LOVE! What’s not to love?

AND: Last but not least, the audio version of IMMERSED!

Immerse in Listening to Immersed on Audio!

Immerse in Listening to Immersed on Audio!

Immersed is book six in the RIPPLE EFFECT ROMANCE series, and if you’re more of an audio listener, this is the final installment to reach audio for the series. It’s about a 4 1/2 hour read/listen, and as I reviewed it after the amazing voice actress (and an author herself) Gwendolyn Druyor read it for all our listening pleasure, I found little fun parts I’d forgotten were in there, like the McDonalds scene and the reference to the stormy petrels. Aw, good times. So if you have holiday travel planned, this might be a good companion. Your kids might not love it as much as they’d love hearing a story about zombies, but they won’t be offended by it, either. (Unless they HATE kissing. It ends with kissing. OF COURSE.)

I’m really excited to have these projects reach the public at last. It’s so fun to see stuff I’m working on come to fruition. I’ll be glad to sign a copy for you of any of these titles, just message me. Well, I don’t know how to sign an audio download. Sorry. But otherwise, yes! You can email me!

Merry Christmas. I hope yours is full of WAVES OF JOY!

A Quarter of a Million Words, and I’m Still Feeling Like a Slacker?

October is almost over. I can’t believe how crazy it’s been. When it started, I had pie in the sky plans for finishing my third Legally in Love novel, and I was off to a running start, about 45,000 words in ten days. Yay! And then… for the next three weeks, not even 100 words as life high-jacked all my plans.


Sometimes, just to feel like a bit of a martyr perhaps or so that I don’t feel like a slouch and a time-wasting loser, I make a “ta-da” list instead of a “to do” list, especially when I am down on myself for not reaching a certain arbitrary deadline or goal I’ve given myself. Looking back on the word count disaster, I have to do this or else I’ll just mope.



  • Edited three 90,000+-word novels, for myself and two crit partners. That, my pretties, is over a quarter of a million words edited in the last 12 days. Shoosh!
  • Cleaned my house, yard, and truck for when my parents came to visit—quite a feat, since I’ve been writing like a maniac, and let’s just say things had started looking like nature was going to take the place back as her own.
  • Planned a lunch for 50 teenage boys
  • Planned and prepared a meal for 35 teenagers—the same day as the 50-kid lunch
  • Formed a committee to create a scholarship
  • Helped my kids enter stuff in the county fair, went to the fair FOUR times, and worked twice at the political booth
  • Went on three all-day trips out of town for kids’ events and stuff for my husband’s work
  • Prepared and taught a church lesson and attended quite a few meetings (normal Mormon life being that we believe in meetings; we believe in all meetings; we have attended many meetings and hope to attend all meetings…)
  • Ran 55 miles and biked about 70
  • Drove for the field trip (I’m sitting in the parking lot at the Observatory writing this right now)
  • Helped kids organize a total of SEVENTEEN (no exaggeration) different costumes, including sewing a skunk costume from scratch (and I don’t really sew)
  • Chauffeured a cute little batch of girls to play practice a dozen times and volunteered to keep the peace in the dressing room
  • Listened to and approved 4 hours of audio for the Immersed audiobook project (yay! It’s happening!)
  • Released TWO novels: Asked & Answered, and Under the Mistletoe (a Timeless Romance Anthology) which went to #1 in Amazon’s “Clean Romance” new releases. Woot!
  • Organized the ARC distribution of those novels to my Review Team
  • Formalized a Review Team
  • Developed an official mailing list
  • Created and distributed an author newsletter
  • Chose covers for two new novels, which I’ll reveal sometime soon
  • Had a great visit with my parents
  • Organized a family lunch for 30 at my house
  • And last but not least, saw my little daughter get baptized on one of the sweetest, happiest days of my entire life.


This is only stuff I can think of off the top of my head, and I’m not even going to mention the little skirmishes I had to fight against myself now and then. One thing that’s not on this list: slept eight hours at a stretch even once. One thing I wish weren’t on the list: gained seven pounds. Alas.


I know there’s a touch of martyr syndrome in me, and I’m working on that, but when I look at this list it does make me feel a touch better and less like a total slacker as a writer. Now, enough whining. I’m going to go add some padding to my word count. I wish I could get this whole project done in time to start a new book (which I outlined on one of the out of town trips) for NaNoWriMo for November, but I’m going to just cut myself some slack and write this book at a reasonable pace.


Meanwhile, ASKED AND ANSWERED comes out tomorrow! I’m really happy with the feedback reviewers have given it so far. It’s still fluff, but I think the characters are sweet, and their story makes me happy. I hope it will make you happy too.

What’s Your Blockage?

What causes your writer’s block? Not necessarily the proverbial blockage that keeps a writer from putting any words on the page for days or weeks or more, but the thing that bumps you out of your groove so you have to go get a snack or check the interwebs or waste valuable writing time in any way?


Mine’s METAPHOR. Metaphor is my productivity Achilles heel. I’ll be sailing along fine, and then I come to a sentence that requires a comparison for explanation, and urrrrrch! I’m suddenly leaving my document and writing a blog post on the pain of metaphor instead.


Once I read a Jasper Fforde book in the Tuesday Next Series (Tuesday is a book jumper and has to enforce laws in literary crime), where there was a dangerous shortage of metaphor, and it’s being sold on the black market. (In another of his books, the weapons of mass destruction are highly aged cheeses, so stinky they can kill. He’s wildly creative.) I’ve often since thought about how accurate that is! All the good metaphors have already been thought of, surely, and have to be recycled by us latter-day writers.


So now I have to go back to my piece and try to think of a good metaphor to contrast the wretched apartment the heroine has been living in with the palatial mansion she’s being offered. The hell-versus-heaven metaphor is overdone. What else is there? I’ll be racking my brains.


Or maybe I can find some nice, melty (but non-WMD) cheese to eat instead.


Cover Reveal: Asked & Answered

He asked, she answered—a definite no. Now, seven years later, they’re facing off in court. Sparks will fly.

It’s ready! I’m so excited! Laura Tolman at CMI Signs has come up with another fun cover. She’s really creative. I appreciate her neverending supply of artistic ideas. Check out how she put the hair of Becca so it’s coming through the ring! Awesome.

ASKED & ANSWERED is the second book in my little love stories about lawyers. Being the wife of an attorney, I actually know this is possible: for lawyers to be in love. It’s a complete stand-alone, but it has that same little law-and-love theme as its predecessor ATTRACTIVE NUISANCE. Different characters, no other tie-ins but theme. (I always want to know that about a series, don’t you?) You can read them in either order.

ASKED & ANSWERED is available for pre-order on Amazon. Click here! It’s scheduled for November 17th, and will be for sale at an introductory price of $2.99. Bargain city, right?

And now… What do you think of the cover?

Asked & Answered Book 2 in the Legally in Love Series

Asked & Answered:  Book 2 in the Legally in Love Series

And now for the blurb!

Becca is scared. Sure, she’s crazy about Carson, but she’s young, and with a proposal looming, she finds advice from the only person she can, her amateur-psychologist hairdresser.

Despite his plans for the future being completely thrown off, Carson can’t imagine life without Becca. But when the proposal goes horrible wrong, neither one of them expects to end up facing the other seven years later—in court—as enemies. And with Carson nearly engaged to his boss’s daughter.

Seeing each other again is the last thing either of them expected when they signed on to the land dispute case. And working through the long-buried feelings they have for each other is a huge distraction, with a side of Caramel Frozen Hot Chocolate. After all, they’re supposed to be representing clients, not falling legally in love.